How to destress scared cats?
Cats unlike dogs are not very social. They take their time to get used to people and are usually picky about who they bond with. Just because they appear aloof and independent does not mean that they cannot be social. They have a different social structure than humans and dogs.
Cats are usually by themselves and cannot be bothered by other people. Yet there are quite a few cats who get stressed about having guests at home. Just the ring of your doorbell in enough to have them scuttling for cover. The following are the signs of stress in scared cats:
Hiding under the bed until your guests have left
Leaves home or hides somewhere in your home till your guests are gone
Sleeps for more time than they usually do
Begins to toilet inappropriately at home or on your guest’s belongings
Acts aggressively to friendly overtures from your guest
Here is how to handle scared cats:
- Get your cat introduced to a variety of people. From children to quiet people and to the loud brash ones. You can make the introduction friendlier by making your guests treats and toys to your cat. Make sure your pet stays with you at home till your guests leave. Keep them occupied with toys and treats and make them perch on windowsills or shelves if they want to retreat.
- You need to slowly work through your cat’s fears step by step. Start with a quieter group of people, then to children then slowly start introducing them to a loud group.
- Advise your guests not to maintain eye contact as cats perceive them as a threat and will get aggressive or may retreat.
- If your cat shows good behaviour by staying at home with the guests then you need to reward them with treats and toys so that they learn that they will be reinforced for good behaviour and there is no direct threat to them.
It is always a good idea to consult your vet or a behaviourist for their professional advice and guidance.
Happy Parenting!
